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PARENTS SHOULD NOT INTERFERE WITH THE COACH

As parents take a more active role in their child's sport, coaches, naturally, are feeling the pressure.

 

Scott Carpenter, for one, said he took Rudy from Newbury Park High School because he was worried that his son, also an aspiring baseball pitcher, had irreconcilable differences with Lee and school administrators. He has found a school where the son will shine. "Believe me, I'd much rather just sit in the stands and root for the team," said Scott. "But when I see a situation where my son is being hurt, I have to act." For better or for worse, the times have changed.

"Every day, we get complaints from parents. And that's even before school opened," said Robert Ferguson, assistant athletic director at Royal High School and the former boys' and girls' volleyball coach. "It's really become a very volatile situation. We need the support of parents. Without that support, we'd have a difficult time funding our programs. But many parents are crossing the line."

Said St. Bonaventure athletic director Marc Groff: "There's no doubt parental complaints have increased significantly over the past seven to ten years. I think the proliferation of travel teams and club teams have changed things for parents. They make such a financial investment in sports they want the results. There seems to be more pressure on everyone, including the coaches and administrators."

While Lee's case may be an example of parental pressure to the nth degree, there are plenty of everyday examples of parents gone a little wild.

Here are a few:

  • Buena High girls' volleyball coach Jack Richards, a police officer with the Ventura Police Department, said his team had just finished a Channel League game a couple years back when he was approached by a father angry over his daughter's lack of playing time.

The parent grabbed the clipboard that Richards carries and whacked the coach across the chest. Today, Richards is still astonished.

"He did that to me, and I'm a police officer," Richards said. "What he did was a felony."

  • Westlake High football coach Jim Benkert, who operates one of the region's most successful teams, found himself screaming at the parent of one of his very best players during a team practice game early in his tenure. It seems the father was attending a practice and made a disparaging remark at the starting quarterback.

"I had to confront him for that, and I had to do it in front of everybody," said Benkert. "After that, I got more slack from parents. But I also didn't want to do that again."

Since that time, Benkert has barred parents from the practice field. They're confined to the stands.

  • Royal High School baseball coach Dan Maye said he spent nearly all of his free time last season locked in on-campus meetings with disgruntled parents. He said his program was consistently hounded by what he calls a "parents posse."

"I thought fund-raising would be my most difficult job when I started," said Maye, the dean of Marmonte League baseball coaches. "But there are some parents that are very difficult to deal with, and "Every problem becomes a town meeting. There have been a parents' posse, where the parents act like they're a parent/agent."

  • Just last summer, Thousand Oaks High School football coach Mike Sanders turned on his answering machine to hear a tirade from a father intent on taking his son out of the football program.

"That's part of the job," he said. "There's always going to be some parents who are not happy because their sons aren't playing."

The upshot? Coaches say placating parental concerns has become as big a part of their jobs as the X's and O's. To what extent may vary from program to program. To what degree may make for a lengthy coaching stint or cause a coach to rethink his career path.

 

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